Teaching

Private Shibari Lessons in Leuven

We teach one person, a couple, or a small group of up to four (beginner to intermediate) in our private rope space in Leuven, Belgium. The space is comfortable, climate-controlled, and set up for learning, connection, and creative play.

Our lessons emphasise safety, consent, and building strong foundations that you can practise confidently at home.

Our primary language is English; we are happy to accommodate French or Dutch where helpful, but teaching and safety briefings are done in English.

What we teach

A private lesson can follow our open workshop curriculum, or be something entirely custom.

  • From the curriculum: catch up on a lesson you missed, repeat one at your own pace, or work through the series without waiting for the next date.
  • Custom: bring a tie, a skill, or a problem you keep running into, and we build the lesson around it.

What sessions look like

  • Up to 4 hours a day with breaks as needed.
  • You share your goals and we tailor the session to your level and comfort.
  • Safety stays at the centre, we discuss consent, boundaries, and safety protocols before any rope touches skin.
  • You can borrow rope from our collection, buy ready-to-tie rope and safety kits from us, or bring your own if you prefer a familiar feel.
  • We maintain a supportive, judgement-free environment where questions are always welcome.

These sessions work well for people who want focused guidance without the pace of a larger workshop. Whether you’re learning your first column tie or refining suspension techniques, we adapt to your learning style and pace.

Who this is for

  • Couples starting from zero or building on fundamentals.
  • Rope bottoms who want safer body mechanics and clearer communication.
  • Rigging-curious learners who want direct feedback.
  • Small groups who learn best together and want room for every question.
  • Friends from a workshop who want to group up and share the cost.

Prefer a group?

Our open workshop series runs as seven lessons by donation, from a first single column to partial suspension.

Pricing and bookings

Private lessons € 50 per hour for one person or a couple
Small groups € 50 per hour for up to four people, split between you: two couples pay € 25 each
Deposit 25% confirms your booking and is refundable up to 7 days before the appointment

Come on your own, as a couple, or group up with others, up to four people in all. The fee is per lesson, not per person, so a group splits it: four people sharing a lesson pay € 12.50 each per hour.

To book or ask questions, email c​o​n​t​a​c​t​@​t​s​u​r​i​n​e​k​o​.​o​r​g or message us on FetLife.
Let us know who is coming, your experience level, goals, and preferred dates so we can plan your session. If you want a lesson from the curriculum, tell us which one.

Availability

  • Daytime or early evening sessions by arrangement.
  • Tell us your preferred window and we will confirm the exact slot.

Before we meet

  • Share any injuries, mobility needs, or boundaries so we can plan safely.
  • If you are brand new, we start with foundations and build at your pace. There’s no pressure to rush, learning rope takes time.
  • If you already tie, tell us what you want to improve so we can focus the time effectively.
  • We’ll discuss your experience level, goals, and any specific techniques or areas you want to explore.
  • Feel free to ask questions in advance, we’re here to help you prepare and feel comfortable.

International visitors

Visiting Leuven for a short stay?
We can hold a slot while you finalise travel. Leuven is easy to reach from Brussels by train or car. We send directions privately once a lesson is booked.

What we can cover

We adapt each session to your goals, but common topics include:

  • Core ties, frictions, and clean handling techniques.
  • Consent, negotiation, and scene structure for rope-first play.
  • Spotting and avoiding common nerve risks early, prevention is always better than treatment.
  • Building steady connection so both partners enjoy the process.
  • Body mechanics for both riggers and models.
  • Communication skills and check-in protocols.
  • Safety equipment and emergency procedures.

Example paths (riggers and models)

  • Rigger skills: tension control, clean extensions, tidy load paths, safer uplines.
  • Model skills: body awareness, clear signalling, staying comfortable under load.
  • Scene flow: pacing, check-ins, and aftercare.
  • Progression: columns and laddering, partials, and, when ready, a first lift with strong foundations.

What to bring

  • Rope: bring at least three 8 m lengths (5–6 mm) for consistent practice, or borrow ours.
  • Safety cutter: we have plenty on site; bring yours to learn with your own tool.
  • Comfortable clothing: easy movement and clear rope placement help the session run smoothly.

Whether you join an open workshop or book a private lesson, we adapt to your level and goals. If you’re not sure where you fit, get in touch and we’ll help you choose.

Studio details

  • Private rope space in Leuven with clean anchors, mats, and space to learn.
  • Climate-controlled, with breaks whenever you need them.
  • Safety cutters are always within reach; we expect one available for every scene.

Other learning options in Leuven

  • Peer Rope Leuven - monthly peer-learning events where everyone learns from each other in a welcoming, inclusive space